One amazing year!

My husband and I just celebrated our one year anniversary of our wedding. It was a beautiful day ❤ My favorite place to be is in his arms, he is my best friend :)
I learned a LOT this past year! I learned that when you love someone, disagreements can hurt so much, but it is worth it to work through them. We disagree on things, and we have very different interests. But ya know...we still love being married to eachother! When I said "I Do" I meant forever, the good and bad. Everyday I choose to love my husband, because that is what I promised to do, choose him everyday, for the rest of my life. Marriage is a choice, love is a choice, and once you make that choice, keep making it every. single. day.
I can't wait to find out what will come into our lives as time passes, and I am grateful that I have Micah to be with me every step of the way 😊

Let Yourself Feel

Life is beautiful. Pain is beautiful. New experiences bring new joys, and shape us as a human being. All of our experiences just shape us into the beautiful, inticate, deep, complex creatures that we are.
Can you imagine what we would be if we didnt go through pain, sorrows and joys? Well, we would be flat. Bland. Lifeless.

I just got to say, if we try to close ourselves off to emotions and feelings, we lose that part of us that makes us human...
Some feelings are not happy, some are just so painful, but if we cut off our emotions, if we stopped feeling, stop caring, we stop being human. Every emotion we have, the anger, fear, pain, joy, happiness, pride...are what makes us human and beautiful. Being open here, when I go through something that triggers pain, I either embrace it, or I shut it off, so I dont have to feel. Same goes with feelings of joy, if I have shut off my feelings, I dont laugh out loud, I dont smile because the sun is out, I stop feeling even the good feelings. I become a flat, emotionless human. I lose that precious part of me that makes me Me!
 I know this is rambling, but I want you to know that your emotions are a gift to the world, and if you hold them back, try to stifle your emotions, joys and pains, the world misses out on your sparkle. We lose out on your precious contribution to life. Your pains and joys are a gift to you and to others.

So, let yourself feel again. Let yourself feel the wind on your skin, let yourself feel the warmth of the sun, the ach in your cheeks from smiling too long :) laugh out loud! It is ok to feel.
-Inspire True You

Wanted to Write a Post

Not sure what I am going to write about. Laughing is wonderful therapy. My husband and I laugh a lot. Sometimes when I am in a not so happy mood, he will just tickle me until I can't hold back my snorts lol
Laughing is important. So is crying. They both release powerful emotions. Crying helps you release pain, pain that needs to be acknowledged. Pain desires to feel important, because it is. But not to be buried or wallowed in. So, this is where crying helps. Crying shows that you recognize the pain, and then helps it to heal through the cleansing power of tears.

I did not know I was going to write about this! haha Well, what I want to convey to you is that all of your emotions are ok to feel. They need to be acknowledged. And then once you have felt them, move forward. After you have cried, take the time you need, but not too long, because if you take too long, you might get stuck. I got stuck once, and it was hard to get out of. I forgot how to laugh, and to truly feel joy. So, don't get stuck. But if you do, find someone who can teach you how to laugh again.

Teach yourself how to laugh again. It is a powerful thing. Laugh, and cry, because Life is a beautiful canvas of lights and darks. A symphony. A thunderstorm. A spring day. Life is all of it.

-Live Life Full On

Month Anniversary of our Wedding Day

A month ago today, I made a promise to a man. A promise to love him, to cherish him, to love him unconditionally as the Savior would. To be his companion, his other half, he support system, his Best Friend <3

This month has gone so fast, but I love him as much as I did that day and maybe even more so. Marrying this guy was the best thing I ever did. He is perfect for me, not perfect, but perfect FOR ME. I love him and I know that he loves me. I choose him, every day, and by choosing him everyday, that is how we will last a year, 10 years, 50 years, a Lifetime, Eternity. 

Living Life Full On in my marriage means that I consciously choose to love this man that I said yes to, and then working everyday to show him my love. By both of us committing to falling in love everyday, we can have the best marriage we could ever have! 

For those who have more marriage years, what makes a marriage wonderful and work? Ideas?

Masterpiece

Each of us has a masterpiece inside us. Do you believe that?

Have you ever had a dream, a thought, a desire that was so big it scared you? So scary you tried to push it away and forget that desire ever entered your heart?
That is YOUR masterpiece, one that each of us has that needs to come out.

I felt that the other day. I saw a vision in my head, of something beautiful, something I had created. My heart hurt, it yearned for that, to create it, bring it into being. My heart's desire was big, it was bold, and it was scary...

I have a painting inside of me, a MASTERPIECE. I have done other paintings but nothing compared to the Masterpiece my heart saw. It will be stunning, awe inspiring. People will stop and stare at the beauty. My Masterpiece is Breathtaking.

But I am scared. Scared at my inability to recreate it on canvas, scared that when I start, it wont come out as I imagine. But it's there, I know it is there or else my heart wouldn't yearn for it so much.

I believe that each of us has a masterpiece inside, it doesn't have to be art, or music, or writing, it is YOUR masterpiece. YOU decide what it will be.

CHALLENGE:When you feel that burning desire inside you, follow it, and call it into being. The World needs it.

2015

A lot has happened this year....a lot of very big life changing things. I never pictured my year would be like this.

2015. Miracles. Angels. Limitless. Love. Family. 

The death of a close friend. Myself (almost) becoming a missionary. My last semester as a student at BYUI. Applying of a new school. Attending my first Limitless Seminar. Switching companies. Getting Engaged. Months of depression. Months of self-discovery, introspection, reevaluating, falling down, getting back up again.

I would call this year my biggest learning year up to this point. A lot of pain, a lot of joy, and a LOT of new experiences. I found my Best Friend, my Forever Love, and my Partner in crime :) Because of him, I have made it through this year haha I love him with all my heart so I would say every trial up till now has been worth it; it led me to finding the Love of my life!

After my Friend died, I took about 3 months to get back into life. I spent a lot of time alone. I spent a lot of time crying. I struggled, I felt very alone. I felt hurt and confused. But I realized that I was the one who brought those feelings to me. I had isolated myself, thrown up walls around my heart and basically shut out God for a while.

I feel out of the habit of talking to God, allowing Him to heal me, to comfort me, to speak to me. I am working on building up my relationship with Him again, but once out of the habit, its been tough getting back in it.

I am slowing chiseling away the walls, starting to feel warmth hitting my heart again. 

One of the biggest things I learned this year is, I CAN'T go it alone. And I most certainly can't go it without my God to support me, for He knows best and knows all. And He loves me.

When I feel most alone, it is because I have distanced myself from God. I don't want to ever feel that alone again. 

So I am making a Commitment for 2016, I commit to connecting with God every day. To unconditionally love others, especially my amazing future husband. 2016 will be filled with Miracles, with Connection, and with Love :)

-Live Life Full On

Living Life Full On-Toast Master Speech

The recounting of my trip in 2014 as a practice Toast Master speech. The Trip that inspired the name and mission of this beloved blog of mine ;)

It's Not Over Yet

My heart is brimming right now...I have felt so numb lately, but right now I need to express joy and awe at the Grace of God. I spent time talking to God today and I realized that I was stuck in a story of excuses as to why I was dying inside, and basically being pathetic...I was BELIEVING that story!!!

I realized it was a LIE...deep down, I knew what was really holding me back, but I was scared of admitting it, scared that I would disappoint myself, God, others...So I have tried covering it all up with a big FAT story!

But today I felt PAIN, because I realized the only thing that story has gotten me is...disappointment, shame, grief, depression, even physical health struggles...

ONE THING I KNOW, GOD WILL NEVER STOP LOVING ME, AND HE IS ALWAYS WILLING TO FORGIVE AND HELP ME ONCE I HUMBLE MYSELF AND REACH OUT. I AM SO OVERWHELMED WITH THE LOVE HE HAS FOR ME :)

Each of us are God's lambs. Each of us at one point or another have strayed and need rescued and brought back to the love and safety of the fold.

I am ready to break out of this story and run back into my Savior's open arms. "To everyone who's hit their limit, It's not over yet!"(King and Country-It's not over yet). It is time that I turned to God and let Him guide my life again :) 

KEEP on fighting, its not over yet!

-Maryssa M.

We Got This GUYS!

There ya have it! In order to get the most out of life and unleash your greatest potential, you need to go through some challenges. 

When Bad Days Come...

Inspire Wellness: A Thought on Depression and Anxiety

I Wish He Chose To Stay

A very close friend of mine ended his own life on Wednesday morning 9/9/15.

He texted me that morning at 7:23 AM  "Know that I've been praying for you."

And then he took his life...

I found out that night, and I was shocked, in disbelief, and then crushed...

I collapsed on my bed sobbing.... :'(  My mom held me for a while and then my dad came and also held me. He gave me a blessing to give me comfort. It meant so much to me that he did that.

I had 2 yard work jobs the next day, I am grateful I worked alone because I kept breaking down off and on...

It hurts to know that despite how hard I have tried, in the end, it didnt work to keep him here.
He was always an amazing friend. He was always willing to help out and he loved to serve. He stood up for what he believed in. He was so nice, always trying to help someones day go better. The world lost a very amazing person...

Even though I know he is in a better place, I still have so many emotions of confusion, pain, hurt, and sometimes anger...although I feel bad for feeling that way.

Something that gives me comfort is that He is now able to see clearly how much he is loved. I am positive that Heavenly Father is taking amazing care of him...I am sure he is with loved ones, feeling love and joy.
It still hurts when I think about it...His funeral was on Monday the 14th, I wished I didn't have to go..But I know I needed to I guess to face it, or to let him know I cared.. He was loved here, He is loved by so many. I wish we could have helped him see that better. I wish I could have done more :(
I wish I could have....

The last time I saw him was the Sunday before he passed. We talked for a few minutes and I gave him a half hug...I visited his grave this week and I told him that next time I saw him I would give him a good hug. I didn't know it would be the last time on Earth I would have the chance. If I would have known I would have given him a better hug. :/

It is so interesting watching my life now, how hard it is to get back into reality. Its painful some days, then others I am fine, or even happy! I wasn't expecting this, I feel like every part of life right now has been affected, everything is more confusing, more hard to do the normal every day things.

The only thing I know is that  as I turn my life over to God, he will help me overcome this..I just need to pray that God will lift this burden for me. I am grateful to have the knowledge that there is life after death, and that My Savior knows the pain that I am going through. He suffered for everyone.

Balancing Everything?

I came across this tree on my walk today. I found it interesting how half of it was perfectly green and the other half was completely dead!
It got me thinking about my own life and wondering if my life was staying balanced or if I was keeping one part green while other parts were dying...

How often do you take an inventory of your life and examine whether you could be spending more time in areas that may be neglected. We have a lot of areas: Work, education, family, friends, spiritual, physical, mental, others! How are you doing?

For me, I am doing better than I ever have with my physical health, although I am still trying to figure out why I'm not sleeping well. For my education and mental health, I have been attending college and sometimes I will pick up a personal development book. I also recently started a classic called Girl of the Limberlost. My emotional health has been quite an adventure trying to figure out. I find that if I keep a journal and do hobbies occasionally then I feel more emotionally stable. I am working on that one. I have been trying to keep in better contact with my family and stay involved in their lives, and I realized that I really love my family! Imagine that! Friends, well, not sure about that subject at the moment.
So, my point is YOU need to take an inventory of your life. Just check in and ask yourself, "How am I doing?" and then listen for a response.
Do you want a beautiful, green tree, or a dying one?

This is a momentous occasion in history....Starting at 18:05 mins for the 1.5 mile run at the start of the semester....ending with 13:53 mins. at the end of the semester!!!
My goal was 15 mins...and I beat it! I have never been a runner but I feel awesome! Thank you Herbalife, my clogging class 3x per week, and motivation! I feel soo PROUD of myself!!

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Growth Opportunities

Every trial and adversity that we experience in life is a Growth Opportunity.

When I decide to become better and to do better, life sends me little trials, heart aches, things that hurt I feel like just because it wants to find out just how serious I am about what I want. Keep Going.

It hurts, but it doesn't have to. We get to choose how we respond to everything. When life is dumping buckets of hurt and pain, we can chose how long we want to suffer from them. A year, a month, an hr. Just get through them. Don't let them control YOU. YOU ARE THE BOSS! YES YOU!

Take them for what they are, GROWTH OPPORTUNITIES. And then Grow from them...

It is ok to fall down sometimes. And next time, find out why you fell, learn from it, and respond better and stronger next time. No one is expected to be perfect in this life. What matters is you never stop learning. Keep Going. 

YOU ARE STRONG. YOU ARE POWER. YOU ARE IMPORTANT. YOU HAVE A MISSION AND A PURPOSE THAT ONLY YOU CAN DISCOVER. YOU ARE UNIQUELY YOU!!!

YOU ARE AMAZING. GO FOR LIFE AND HAVE FUN DOING IT :D

If You aren't Learning, You aren't Living!

Learning is an essential part of Life. FACT.

Personal Development is something I feel very strongly about. I looove reading Personal development books :)

Yes, I love myself for where I am, and because I love myself, I want to continue learning and growing because I know my potential! 

I love how far I have come in the last couple years, with my business, my family and relationships, and my Faith. I also know that I can continue growing those areas because there is always room for improvement :) 

Right now I am reading a book called The Continuous Atonement-for teens by Brad Wilcox to improve my spiritual life.

I am also reading a book called Think and Grow Rich, so that I can grow my business more effectively.

 I also recently bought a book about How to start conversations and make friends. Not sure the exact title but something like that, so I can work with people better! :)

 Challenge for you!! Decide today to begin working on an area of your life you wish to improve and DO IT! Pick a book, and read it :) Learn from a mentor, study a topic. Endless options!! 

Live Life Full On =)

Interrupting the Pattern...

I went to an incredible training seminar in Las Vegas this weekend with my Herbalife Team. I was soo blown away!! We got to be taught for 2 1/2 hrs from Joseph McClinton III. If you don't know this guy, look him up!!!! SSOOOO amazing!

He taught us how to fill our lives with positive things, how to be happy, successful and just going for life!

So I am going to teach you how to do a very easy trick. It's pretty fun...

1. We all get stuck in a pattern of negativity, idleness, or downerness.. McClinton says that when we interrupt that pattern it creates a blank spot in your brain and YOU get to chose what to fill it with!
2. So, take a moment to think of something that brings you down, doesn't matter what. Think about that for a minute.
3. STOP, Jump up and shout "YES!" while you throw your fist in the air.
4. Raise one arm all the way up and with the other, jump up and give yourself a high five.
5. then, While grinning, pat your self on the back.

6.....REPEAT this process ten times in a row, but progressively get faster!

YOU CAN'T STOP SMILING CAN YOU? :D 

You will feel dorky doing it, don't worry...it's part of the fun! :)

You may notice that the longer you do it, the harder it is to find something to be sad about!

Joseph gave us this challenge, and now I give it to you, in honor of his wish that we Pay It Forward.

CHALLENGE:Every 2 Hours for the next 10 Days, repeat this process.

He says that Personal Development is doing and being who we want to become OVER and OVER again, until it becomes a habit.
So let us all work on becoming the positive happy individuals we were created to become. Go out and Have FUN! 

P.S. Sound effects are welcome and appreciated tehe

Thought of the Day- Family Time

Part of living life full on is learning to appreciate your family. I have been away at school for awhile so i made it a goal that i would take time to spend with my family members. I have also been calling my siblings more often :)

This is Hannah and I's moon sand masterpiece. We are very proud of it )

Let's Talk about the Atonement

One of the most important things one can do to live life full on is to use the Atonement in one's life so that you can be at peace. It is hard to live life to the fullest when you are not at peace.

Here are some quotes I found while reading about the atonement, they are from Elder Theodore Burton's Talk, "The Meaning of Repentance":

“If the wicked restore the pledge, give again that he had robbed, walk in the statutes of life, without committing iniquity; he shall surely live, he shall not die.” (Ezek.33:15.)

Learning from the Saviors Example...
Before this experience, he had always had ready communication with his Father. But now he was left alone to carry the burden of the world’s sins. It was as if the heavens over his head were made of brass and he couldn’t get through!
As he struggled in prayer and suffered horribly under the strain, he asked that the cup might pass and that some other path might be found. It is true that he added the words, “Thy will be done,” but there was no answer to his request, and his soul continued to be filled with anguish.
Three times he pleaded for release, and all three times the answer was the same. (See Matt. 26:36–44.)
Yet Christ had fully committed himself to do what he had been appointed to do. He was willing, and he went forward! Though it cost him tremendous suffering, he had made up his mind and committed himself to be obedient in every particular, regardless of the cost.

• As we become fully engaged in good causes, sin will no longer be such a great temptation for us.
• How do we know if a man or a woman has repented of his or her sins? The Lord answers that question in the next verse: “By this ye may know if a man repenteth of his sins—behold, he will confess them and forsake them.” (D&C 58:42–43.)
• He loves and understands us and is sympathetic to the fact that we face temptations.

"To those who understand its true meaning, repentance is a beautiful word and a marvelous refuge."

Now, What I learned from this quotes is that even Christ, the Son of God, had to go through tremendous trials! In the Garden, he had to know what it felt like to be alone, with out the Holy Spirit to comfort him, so that He would better understand what we would need to go through.

I always thought of Repentance as a long hard and painful process. Yes it can be painful, but what JOY is felt afterwards!!

I felt so in the dark for a month or so now...but as I have talked to my bishop and learned how the Atonement works, I feel alive. I feel loved. And I know that My Savior was waiting for me to reach for Him the whole time!

For a while, I gave into Satan's lies that I was not worth anything, that I did not have the right to pray to my Heavenly Father...I hated myself. :/  I stopped praying and reading my scriptures because I thought it would be easier than facing him.

Believe me when I say, It made life so much harder and more desparing...I hurt inside. I felt alone. I felt trapped and I hated myself. This is what SATAN wants! He never wants me to be happy.

So once I chose to believe that I was worth something, good things started happening. It became easier to smile. There is more light in my life. I am more motivated and I feel God's Love for me.

I'm still working on building my relationship with Christ, but life is getting better because of it.

If you have not read "The Miracle of Forgiveness" by Pres. Spencer W. Kimball, I would suggest you do. It expands on the Atonement at a much deeper level than I ever could. 

I know that the Atonement is for anyone and everyone who has sinned, who needs burdens lifted, comfort, anything. God loves you. Christ loves you, that is why he died on the Cross and rose again for you.